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Postponed - Sukkot: Book Reading

Please join us for a Maui Jewish “Ohana Sukkot Book Event! 

Nancy Pechner, author of her memoir Them Before Me, in conversation with Rabbi Sandra Razieli

Book reading, Q&A, and signing** 

Thursday, October 5th at 6:45pm

85 Uakoko Place, Haiku

*Please park on street and walk up

BYOB. Dessert will be served.

RSVP to sandra@mauirabbi.com 

**Books will not be sold at event, so please bring yours for signing!

***Book purchase links are on Nancy's website home page. Please go to NancyPechner.com

It’s crazy how a moment in time can change the course of an entire family.

Them Before Me is the story of a child innocently born into a family living in emotional chaos.  Nancy’s parents lived in the shadow of historical trauma from immigration, family deaths, abuse, and divorce, and were unable to deliver the parental structure and dependable love this child so desperately needed. Events beyond all their control, together they were led down a path of intergenerational loss, grief, and pain.

From a very young age, Nancy, bewildered and concerned, and with the monumental challenge to live a normal childhood, somehow still managed to see her world as a glass-half-full. As her heart expanded, she found her way to a place of genuine compassion and forgiveness, which led her to live out of earnest gratitude and unfeigned love. Nancy turned hardship into opportunity, until she found herself living a self-fulfilled life of meaning and joy, one that she lives today. 

As Nancy put her personal puzzle pieces together, although often painful and heartbreaking, but totally worth the journey, telling her story of Them Before Me was a gift. Not just for herself, but for those who need the permission and tools to find their own paths of healing their hearts and souls.

Nancy Zimmerman Pechner, M.S., Counseling Psychology, always needing to keep it fresh, is somewhat of a Renaissance woman. Her careers have been many. She is a professional mother, artist, community lay-leader and Founder of the Jewish Community High School of the Bay, curriculum developer, teacher – using art as a vehicle towards self-awareness, facilitator, counselor, officiant, massage therapist, and now, author. Holding space for growth and change is the common thread that runs through her lifetime of personal research on the human condition, and putting what she has observed into action for the greater good. Nancy lives in Maui, Hawaii, and is married to her husband of 33 years. They have three adult children.

J.Weekly article link - https://jweekly.com/2023/07/31/growing-up-at-zims-amid-hamburgers-and-trauma/?utm_source=J.+The+Jewish+News+of+Northern+California&utm_campaign=a97e4169bf-RSS_EMAIL_CAMPAIGN&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_93a945700b-f394910354-%5BLIST_EMAIL_ID%5D

Donations - In an effort to bring more awareness about and support of those suffering from intergenerational trauma and grief, all proceeds from the sales of this book will be donated to the Beverly Shirlee Zimmerman Bock Fund for Girls and Women At Risk, an endowed fund at Jewish Family and Children's Services of San Francisco, The Peninsula, Marin and Sonoma Counties, and Nā Keiki O Emalia, a non-profit organization on Maui providing support to grieving children, teens and their families. Feel free to make additional contributions at the links below.

NKOE-Maui LINK: https://nkoemaui.org/donate/  

JFCS-SF LINK: www.jfcs.org/pechner-book

Photo courtesy of Richard Pechner

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